Southern Cupcake

The Month of May.. I Cried

2010-05-27T22:01:00.004-05:00

It has been a crazy and whirlwind of a month. I celebrated my birthday at the beginning of the month, Miss B lost her first tooth and (we think) swallowed it, Miss B turned 5 years old mid-month and performed in her first dance recital last weekend. Little B is growing leaps and bounds right before my eyes. Even though I have experienced it once before with Miss B the process is still amazing and brings endless joy and love even on the roughest days.

However, the biggest event for me this month happened today.

I cried.. I thought I was prepared, but I cried.. When I saw her walk across the stage wearing her graduation medal I lost it.. Congratulations on your Pre-K graduation Baby Cakes.. Mommy and Daddy are extremely proud of you.. We love you always and forever!

Hugs and Kisses!
Mommy

Feeling A Little Ambiguous

2010-04-23T13:39:00.003-05:00

I overheard the kids while cooking dinner this week: Little B, I am going to high school, but first I have to go to kindergarten... I have homework to do right now so please don't bother me...

AND...

When I picked the kids up from preschool yesterday this was the conversation with my daughter:

Me: How was your day?
Miss B: Good, but I think you need to bring Little B to school tomorrow and let me stay home.
Me: Why do you want to stay home?
Miss B: I need some alone time.
Me: Why do you need some alone time?
Miss B: Well, I am just feeling a little AMBIGUOUS.
Me: O.K. I have a day already planned next month for just you and me.
Miss B: Good, that will work.

Seriously, my 4 year old is deciding she wants a little R&R via a mental health day? They tell me these are the easy years.

SDB

Time Is Flying By Way Too Fast

2010-04-22T12:00:00.004-05:00

So...

I haven't done too well with my New Year's Resolutions, but there is no shame on my part since I have a lot on my plate. Little B turned 2 years old last month and Miss B turns 5 years old next month. There is so much going on and all I can think is "slow down!" It is all going by me way too fast. It seems like yesterday I was posting that I was pregnant with Little B. I have emails of little funny sayings that I want to post that Miss B says so I don't forget them and they are piling up. I am coming to the Mommy realization that the to-do lists never end and will get longer as the school work load and activities increase.

I sometimes wonder when/how do all these Moms have time to run their kids to and from school, to and from activities, clean their house, wash and fold laundry, bake cookies, go to school part time or full time and work part time or full time whether or not that is from home or not, volunteer, scapbook, blog and Facebook? If they work full time outside of the house like I do then we need to add a 2 hour to 2.5 hour commute each day.

I know the answer, but sometimes we (I) buy into the myth that we can/should/will be able to have it all and do it all. I spoke to another Mom at work today about the evening rush. We both walk in the door between 6:00 and 6:30 p.m. and the next 2 to 3 hours after that is a blur until the kids crash around 9:00 p.m. I know I am not alone in this boat, but cannot stop from thinking that there has to be a better answer for our society, especially since I recently read that 76% of both parents work.

SDB

Time to Blog

2010-01-24T17:44:00.005-06:00

Well, I have a confession to make. Blogging is fun, but almost near impossible now that I am running after two kids. Work is crazy and it is hard to post at night. Everyone is usually asleep in my house by 9 p.m. You may be thinking to yourself, "Wow, that is great." The only problem is that I usually go to sleep at that time as well since Mr. B and I are up by 5 a.m. during the week.

I leave work to go home at a decent time, but by the time I commute home, pick up the kids, go the gym (with them in tow), get home, prepare/cook/serve dinner, clean the kitchen, get the kids bathed, get me bathed and get the kids to sleep, it is usually 9 p.m. and I am exhausted. Some nights I actually think about elementary school, which is right around the corner and hope the kids get most of their homework done after school during after-school care; otherwise, I am going to have to come up with a new game plan in the future, especially since after school activites are going to be a factor as well.

My brain functions better in the mornings, so blogging or doing anything past 9 p.m., especially after I have just had a 16 hour day is near impossible so this year I am going to make more of an effort to do a few posts each week during lunch time. At least that is my New Year's Resolution that I think I can stick to in the long run.

SDB

Latest Musings...

2009-12-07T14:20:00.006-06:00

Dear Miss B:

You are priceless! In the past few months you have told me:

Miss B: Mom, your boobies are flat.
Me: I know. (Thinking to myself she is correct since breastfeeding both kids.)
Miss B: You need to get some new ones.
Me: I know. I will tell your Dad I need new ones.

I must confess there are phrases that Miss B says that I wasn't planning on hearing until she got much older, say 14 versus 4:

1. Come on
2. Seriously
3. You heard me

And my personal favorite lately (usually said to me in the mornings when I am trying to get her and Little B out the door)...

4. Mom, you are rushing me. Let me get situated.

Miss B you keep me on my toes, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

SDB

Thump.... Bigger Thump

2009-10-07T14:50:00.002-05:00

The first thump was Little B throwing his sippy cup of milk out of his crib. The second bigger thump was Little B throwing himself out of his crib.

Needless to say, Little B is now sleeping with Miss B in her queen size bed.

SDB

I'm Testing You

2009-09-21T09:47:00.003-05:00

The joys of motherhood...

Me: Please get off the coffee table. You know better.
Miss B: Gets off and then gets back on.
Me: I thought I told you to get off the coffee table. I don't want your little brother to do that.
Miss B: Smiles sweetly as she says "I'm testing you" in a joking manner.

Needless to say, my four year old daughter has heard me many times tell her, "Do not test me. "

SDB

Little B - 16 Months Old

2009-08-07T05:46:00.003-05:00

Dear Little B,

Time is flying so fast. I cannot believe you are already 16 months old. Please forgive Mommy last month when I was worried you weren't saying more than 5 words. Even though Sisty talked and said a lot of words early, I must confess that Mommy now thinks you are actually understanding everything a lot sooner. The other morning you were eating your sausage in your carseat and Sisty was sitting next to you. Sisty told Mommy that she wanted a piece of sausage too and you immediately handed your sausage to her. You have a generous spirit and your smile melts my heart. I love you Boogaboo!

Forever,
Mommy

Four Year Olds and Laundry

2009-07-22T05:58:00.002-05:00

So, I have really started to get Miss B involved in chores I think she needs to learn early. The most important lesson being that when you take something off you don't just drop it on the floor for the clothes fairy (A.K.A. Mom, Me, Myself and I) to pick it up and get it to the laundry room. This lesson is critical for preschoolers, especially the girly, girl ones who come home and change clothes every ten minutes. The other day I told Miss B to bring her socks to the laundry room.

Me: Miss B, did you bring your socks to the laundry room?
Miss B: She puts her hands on her hipsand looks up exasperated since I am obviously interrupting her play.
Me: I raise my eyebrows.
Miss B: Yes mom, but it is crapping all out of it!
Me: What?
Miss B: The clothes mom.

It took me a minute to realize that was Miss B's version of my phrase, "There is crap everywhere!"

It is good to know my kids really do listen to me.
SDB

He Is Tired You Know...

2009-06-27T06:39:00.002-05:00

The other morning while I was taking Miss B to Summer Camp, the sun was rising and was mid-way in the sky. It was bright and that deep, vibrant orange color. I made a comment about how beautiful it was and thankful that God gave us such a beautiful sun.

Miss B said, "Mom, the sun is still a little sleepy and is just waking up. He is tired you know. " Miss B can be a handful in the mornings since we wake up early and I think she was letting me know how she feels most mornings. I had to agree with her.

SDB

Princess Big Kid

2009-06-24T05:23:00.002-05:00

Miss B and I were talking the other day and I referred to her by her nickname, Baby Cakes. She looked at me and quickly informed me she was no longer a Baby, but a Big Kid. She paused for a second and told me, "You can call me Princess Big Kid!"

Oh, to be 4 years old again and run the world. I know there are a ton of moms out there who can pass me one of their tiaras.

SDB

It Is So True...

2009-06-12T06:27:00.002-05:00

Time does fly. I am going to try and get better about posting because I don't keep a journal and (I think I mentioned this in the past), at least this is a small way to capture the memories. I used to have this grand idea when I was pregnant with Miss B that I would scrapbook. The idea is great and I would love to do it, but I honestly don't have the time. Needless to say, I have not done one scrapbook so I have put that idea on the back burner for retirement. I figure I will need something to keep me busy along with, hopefully, the grandkids.

Another issue is that I am going to have to post from home or strictly during "lunch hour" at work. I know there are a lot of full-time working moms in the same situation. Our computer at home is in the study/playroom so I am planning on doing more weekend posts while the kids and I are hanging out.

I hope everyone is doing well.
SDB

Happy 4th Birthday Miss B!

2009-05-18T14:53:00.002-05:00

Four years ago today, God blessed me with a beautiful bundle of joy. Happy 4th Birthday Miss B! You are a wonderful gift and I am grateful every day for the blessing God has given us.

Love,
Mommy

I Forgive You

2009-04-08T15:07:00.004-05:00

So, I wanted to let everyone know that I am forgiven. I have been teaching Miss B about forgiveness and she has really embraced the concept. I first talked to her about it a few weeks ago and a few days later our conversation on the way home from preschool went like this:

Miss B: Mom, we need to have a talk.
Me: O.K.
Miss B: I didn't listen to what you told me to do and you hollered at me, but I forgive you.
Me: O.K.

Now, a few weeks later, she will look at me and say with a sweet smile, "Mom, I love you and I forgive you."

This is especially poignant when we are in line at the grocery store. Can you picture the stares from the people in line behind us as they are thinking what do I do to my child?

SDB

Easter Cupcakes

2009-04-08T12:36:00.002-05:00

Aren't these the cutest cupcakes?

Happy Easter!

SDB

Tippy Toes

2009-04-03T16:26:00.003-05:00

Last Friday afternoon when we got home, Miss B and our dog went in the back yard. One of her "chores" is to take him outside when we get home. It works out great because she goes swing on the swing set while I start dinner. I realized after a moment that it was too quiet and I started looking for Baby B. We have an open concept living/kitchen area so the kids are always within eye/ear shot. I did a quick sweep of the area and had to do a double take. My 12 month old son was literally at the back door on his tippy toes with his hand on the door knob trying to twist it!

I forgot we need to be one step ahead of them!
SDB

Blink - It Is Gone

2009-04-03T16:14:00.002-05:00

My baby turned 1 year old on the 26th of March and Miss B is turning 4 years old next month. I cannot believe the past year is gone. I know EVERYONE warned me (and still warns me) that it flies by, but it is overwhelming to realize how true it is.

Miss B had her preschool parent-teacher conference this morning so I was home with the kids. I was holding and rocking Baby B because he was getting tired. As I was holding his hand and looking in this eyes he took my hand and brought it to the side of his face and closed his eyes. The moment was so tender and priceless, I started crying.

SDB

Quick Update

2009-01-23T15:47:00.001-06:00

Sorry I have been MIA. Seriously, I promise to write more soon. Things have been hectic around the B household. I hope everyone is doing well and settling into the New Year.

SDB

Daycare and Preschool - What No One Warned Me About

2009-01-22T10:37:00.003-06:00

No one warned me that I would be paying more in daycare and preschool than my home mortgage and that we (Mr. B and I) would pay it with a smile because our kids get to learn and play all day and they are always smiling and happy when I pick them up!

SDB

Holiday Recap

2009-01-17T14:46:00.009-06:00

I know I am late, but hey better late than never. I actually got around to getting the kids Christmas pictures taken today. Seriously. I have a good excuse. Doesn't every full-time working mom who has a three hour commute every day? Honestly, in my defense, the kids did get sick right after Christmas when I was planning on getting them done while I was on vacation By the time they were both feeling better, we were a week into the New Year and I was back at work.

Anyway, I forgot to post Miss B's Christmas wish list, which she started working on in October. The child definately takes after me as far as planning processes. Her list consisted of three main things, which was a cat (the FurReal Friends White Kitty Cat), a Water Babies Doll Bath Fun Set and a dollhouse. I lucked out in the dollhouse department since I already had the Fisher-Price Loving Family Grand Dollhouse picked out for her and in November Toys R'Us had a Fisher-Price Loving Family sale where all the accessories were buy one get one free. I literally bought every room and accessory that comes with the dollhouse, which I thought worked out great because since this was the first year Miss B, who is 3.5 years old, was really into Christmas and Santa Clause; therefore, she would have lots of presents to open since each room would be wrapped separately.

I have to back track for just a minute though to Thanksgiving. The day before Thanksgiving I pulled out all the paperwork Miss B brought home from preschool. Her class had made a Thanksgiving wreath with the paper leaves around it, etc. and they told their teacher what they were thankful for and then their teacher wrote it on the wreath. Well, Miss B's said, "God, I am thankful for my cat and water baby." Of course, I laughed out loud and thought to myself, "How smart is that?" Thanking God in advance for your Christmas presents? She is really too much!

Christmas was great and, at first, Miss B was really excited about her presents. She wasn't really surprised by what she got because she just knew Santa got her list and, hey, she had put in a her back-up plan by thanking God already for the presents. Three-fourths of the way through opening all the dollhouse rooms and accesories, Miss B tells me, "Mom, I want to stop. My finger hurts from pulling all the tape off." Needless to say, we will be downsizing a little on the present quantity next year. Baby B thouroughly enjoyed the ornaments on the tree the best along with all the wrapping paper.

I hope everyone is settling back into their routine(s) after the holidays and enjoying the New Year.
SDB

Christmas Program

2008-12-17T14:19:00.005-06:00

Miss B had her first Christmas Program last night and all I can say is HILARIOUS! Seriously, if you have never gone to a preschool Christmas Program, you don't know what you are missing, especially if you go with your crazy family. Of course, Mr. B went and my entire family came except for my two brother-in-laws, which means my parents and my three younger sisters were there. Miss B attends a Christian preschool, so their program depicted the story of the birth of Jesus, etc. The kids came out in their little homemade costumes that they made in class. Miss B was in the "Kings" section of the program so they had gold crowns on their heads.

My sisters got there early to get good seats so we wound up in the first row all the way to the right-hand side of the stage if you are facing it. Miss B came out with her class on the left-hand side of the stage and you could tell she was searching the audience high and low until she found a familiar face. The first person she saw was my dad and she starts waving and hollers out in front of everyone, "Hi PawPaw!" Well, the way she did it and with such animation was priceless and we all lost it and started rolling in laughter. That began the laughing tirade.

Miss B saw us laughing so she turned to a few of her classmates and started laughing and cutting up. I could tell she was a little nervous and the teacher tried to calm her and a few other kids down before the singing began. Once they started singing she calmed down a bit, but then became a little shy and started putting her arms crisscrossed over her eyes. On top of that, the little boy in her class that was standing on the side of her was dancing like it was a contest and my sisters and I could not stop laughing.

I need to let you know at this point that two of my sisters are elementary school teachers becuase it makes the rest of the story priceless. At this point in the program, one of my sisters sarcastically said, "Did they have to put the two class clowns right by each other?" while another sister is hissing in a loud voice, which could be heard in at least three rows "Don't look at her!/We are distracting her!/Don't look at her!" While those two sisters are just thinking their comments out loud and directing what we should be doing, the third sister is trying not to laugh hysterically,but is failing miserably. And me? I am holding the camcorder and trying to video tape the event while suppressing my laughter, especially since Mr. B sat next to me and said, loud enough to be recorded of course, "What is wrong with that boy?"

Again, if you have never seen a bunch of preschoolers put on a Christmas Program, please run, do not walk, to your local school or church for some great entertainment!
SDB

Lily O'Briens Chocolates

2008-12-04T09:18:00.003-06:00

I LOVE dark chocolate and these are wonderful and worth the splurge!

Enjoy!

SDB

Milestones

2008-12-04T09:05:00.004-06:00

Miss B is a handful. Seriously. I am amazed at what comes out of her mouth. By now, I should not be surprised, especially since she is wise beyond her years (all three of them). The other day I told her to do something and she let me know what she wanted to do, etc. I reiterated my wishes to her and she told me her wishes again and then, in her mind, finalized the conversation with, "Mom, I am not going to argue with you!"

On a side note, Baby B is growing up so fast! He is already 8 months old and has been hitting those first year milestones at warp speed (or so it seems). He sat up at 6 months, cut two bottom teeth and started crawling at 7 months and now he is doing patty cake, clapping and babbling up a storm. Before I know it, the holidays will be over and he will be turning 1 year old in March.

I know everyone says time flies, but it does seem to be going quicker now that I have two kids, have more to do and am a little older.

I hope everyone is doing well and staying sane during this holiday season. May this month bring you lots of love, joy and happiness.
SDB

Turkey Cupcakes

2008-11-18T11:48:00.007-06:00

Ingredients:

1 box Betty Crocker® SuperMoist® devil's food cake mix
Water, vegetable oil and eggs called for on cake mix box

2 containers (1 lb each) Betty Crocker® Rich & Creamy milk chocolate frosting

1 tube (4.25 oz) Betty Crocker® white decorating icing

1 tube (0.68 oz) Betty Crocker® brown decorating gel

Candy corn

Chocolate candy sprinkles

Directions:

1. Heat oven to 350°F (325°F for dark or nonstick pans). Make and cool cake as directed on box for 24 cupcakes.
2. Frost cupcakes with frosting. Place remaining frosting in corner of resealable freezer plastic bag. Snip off small corner of bag.
3. To decorate each cupcake, pipe 1-inch mound of frosting on 1 side of cupcake to look like head of turkey. Make eyes with white decorating icing and brown decorating gel; add candy corn for beak. To make feathers, pipe frosting on opposite side to hold candy corn; place candy corn upright on frosting to look like feathers. Sprinkle chocolate candy sprinkles near head and at base of feathers. If desired, add candy corn at base of cupcake for feet. Store loosely covered.
High Altitude (3500-6500 ft): Follow High Altitude directions on cake mix box.

Enjoy!

SDB

Don't Sing That Song

2008-11-12T16:14:00.003-06:00

So, Miss B woke up this morning in a grumpy mood. I got her dressed for school, etc. and went to take care of Baby B. While I was changing him I started singing "Itsy Bitsy Spider". Miss B overheard me and when I walked back in the living room she barked out, "Don't sing that song!" I looked at my child and asked why and she informed me that was her song. Evidently, she was not in a sharing mood! During mommy moments like this I think to myself, "No one warned me!"

SDB

Wicked Cupcakes

2008-10-23T10:37:00.003-05:00

Miss B is going to be a witch this year and these are so cute!

Ingredients
Cupcakes:
1 1/2 ounces fine-quality semisweet chocolate, chopped
1/4 cups prune juice
3/4 cup all-purpose flour
3/4 cup sugar
1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1/4 teaspoon baking soda
1/4 teaspoon baking powder
1/4 teaspoons salt
1 large egg
1 large egg yolk
1/3 cup buttermilk
1/4 cup vegetable oil
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
Frosting:
1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, at room temperature
1 cup peanut butter (smooth or chunky)
4-ounces cream cheese, at room temperature
4 cups confectioners' sugar
2 tablespoons milk
1 drop food coloring (green), optional
Chocolate wafer cookies
Licorice strips
Toasted coconut
Small candies
Special equipment: 12 (1/2-cup) muffin cups with paper liners

Directions
For the cupcakes:

Position a rack in the middle of the oven and preheat to 300 degrees F. Set liners in muffin cups.

Put the chocolate and prune juice in a microwave safe bowl. Heat in the microwave on low power, stirring occasionally, until completely melted. Whisk the flour, sugar, cocoa powder, baking soda, baking powder, and salt in a large bowl. In another bowl, beat the egg and yolk with an electric hand mixer at high speed until slightly thick and lemon colored, about 3 minutes. Slowly add buttermilk, oil, vanilla, and melted chocolate mixture to eggs, beating until thoroughly combined. Add the flour mixture and beat until just combined. Divide the batter among muffin tins, filling them 1/2 of the way. Bake until a toothpick inserted into the center of the cupcakes comes out clean and the tops spring back when pressed gently, about 25 minutes. Cool the cupcakes in the tin on a rack for 10 minutes then remove from the tin and cool completely.

For the frosting:

Beat the butter, peanut butter, and cream cheese in a large bowl with an electric mixer until light and fluffy. Gradually add the confectioners' sugar and milk mixing until the frosting is smooth. Add food coloring as desired. Refrigerate the frosting until firm.
To decorate the cakes: For the witches hat, score a circle in the middle of a cupcake. Cut a deep cone-like shape with a knife held at an angle. Rotate the cupcake to complete the circle and remove the center. Repeat with all the cupcakes. Generously scoop or pipe enough frosting into the center of each cupcake to fill the hole and to come over the cake to make a face. Top with a chocolate wafer cookie. Put a dot of frosting in the middle of the wafer cookie and invert the cone shaped piece of cake on top to make a witches hat. Use skinny licorice, toasted coconut or cereal flakes for hair and candies for eyes and/or nose. Refrigerate for up to 30 minutes before serving.

Enjoy!

SDB

My "Baby" Started Preschool Today

2008-10-14T14:04:00.003-05:00

To say I have been busy is an understandment. While I wasn't looking or better yet, while I was looking but just running around participaing in life, my "Baby" turned 3 years old and my "Little Baby" turned 6 months old. Miss B started preschool today and I am excited. We originally weren't planning on sending her until next year at 4 years old, but she is ready. I have noticed lately that she has outgrown many aspects of the home daycare environment and some of the changes are more obvious now ever since she and Baby B returned to their daycare a few weeks ago. They were not there for almost a month due to our vacation to Colorado and then Hurricane Ike. I have been so blessed and fortunate with their home daycare and Baby B will continue to go there until they retire or he turns three years old.

I lucked out in the fact that her school had an opening since there is almost always a waiting list. I originally visited the school with the intention of getting on the waiting list for next year, but there are a few opening in her age group. Believe it or not, the economy has helped in that regard. Evidently, a few of the stay at home moms have decided to not put their kids in private preschool (at least at the 3 year old age) due to the cost, which has left a few opening spots for full time working moms like me. Miss B was such the big girl this morning and did not whine, cry or cling to me after I hugged and kissed her goodbye. I cannot wait to pick her up from school today and find out what she did, etc. I will have to let you all know how it went.

SDB

No Excuses, But...

2008-09-24T11:04:00.002-05:00

I know, I know, I know. I have been MIA for a while. It has been hectic with working full time, commuting 2.5 hours a day, keeping up the kids, running a household, going on vacation to Colorado with the kids (another post needed on that one) and dealing with Hurricane Ike, etc. I will stop there, but wanted to say I hope to be able to get back to posting on a more regular basis soon, especially since the vacation post is a must!

Cinnamon Mocha Cupcakes

2008-08-04T14:10:00.002-05:00

Yummy!

INGREDIENTS
1/4 cup butter, softened
2/3 cup sugar
1 egg
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
14 tablespoons all-purpose flour
1/4 cup baking cocoa
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon baking powder
1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/4 cup strong brewed coffee, room temperature
3 tablespoons 1% buttermilk
1 cup prepared chocolate frosting
3/4 teaspoon instant coffee granules
1 teaspoon hot water

DIRECTIONS
In a small mixing bowl, cream the butter and sugar. Beat in egg and vanilla. Combine the flour, cocoa, baking soda, salt, baking powder and cinnamon; add to creamed mixture alternately with coffee and buttermilk.
Coat muffin cups with nonstick cooking spray or use paper liners; fill half full with batter. Bake at 350 degrees F for 18-20 minutes or until a toothpick comes out clean. Cool for 5 minutes before removing from pan to a wire rack to cool completely.
Place the frosting in a bowl. Dissolve coffee granules in hot water; stir into frosting until smooth. Frost cupcakes.

FOOTNOTE
Nutritional Analysis: 1 cupcake equals 325 calories, 13 g fat (5 g saturated fat), 42 mg cholesterol, 391 mg sodium, 50 g carbohydrate, 1 g fiber, 3 g protein.

Enjoy!
SDB

And The Winner Is...

2008-08-01T07:59:00.005-05:00

Congratulations to Preppy Mommy at My Preppy Purse! Please email me at southerncupcake@yahoo.com when you purchase something from A Touch of Whimsy Designs and I will pay $5 on your behalf to Gina.

I hope everyone has a great Friday and a wonderful weekend!
SDB

Bloggy Giveaways

2008-07-31T10:33:00.012-05:00

How fun is this for a Thursday? Since I found out about this from the wonderful Ms. Gina, I will contribute $5 towards any purchase the winner makes at her online store.

I know I haven't received a lot of traffic lately, but a few people may post here by the end of today and be the winner!

Enjoy!
SDB

Funny Quotes By Miss B

2008-07-17T08:49:00.007-05:00

I know kids repeat almost everything their parents say, but Miss B is something else. In the past week she has told me:

"Listen to me right now."
"I don't want to have to tell you again."
"You are making me nervous."

I also overheard her while she was "playing" with her baby doll and their conversation went like this:

Miss B: Listen to me and get dressed now.
Pause
Miss B: We can do it the hard way.
Pause
Miss B: I'm not playing with you.

I will forever be on my toes with this one!
SDB

Throw Him Away

2008-07-11T15:01:00.004-05:00

Miss B loves her baby brother approximately 95% of the time, which is great since she had Mr. B and I all to herself for almost three years. Well, last night as I was feeding Baby B, Miss B did something inappropriate (I cannot remember now, but it had to do with me and Baby B) and I reprimanded her for it. She got upset and said I needed to throw him (Baby B) away. Her jealousy, to date, has never extended that far so I told her fine, we would give him to another family who would love him.

Well that opened the flood gates and she started crying hysterically saying we have to keep him and I cannot give him away. I calmed her down and let her know we would keep him and never give him away. Miss B and I sometimes tell each other, "I will never leave you" and after she calmed down she turned to Baby B and said, "I will never leave you."

At that moment I realized sometimes it really is worth going through the other 5%!
SDB

Don't Argue With Me/Don't Make Me Upset

2008-07-03T10:07:00.004-05:00

I think all mothers tell their child at least once that they should have a child of their own just like them. In my case, my mother probably told us that (with love and affection) at least once a week when we were growing up.

Two weeks ago Miss B and I were in Baby B's room. I was changing Baby B and Miss B was holding her big (real-life looking) baby doll and she decided she wanted me to read one of the book's on Baby B's shelf. I told her I would read it to her and the following conversation occurred.

Me: Miss B please take the book to your room and I will meet you there in a minute.
Miss B: Mom, you carry the book.
Me: No, I asked you to carry the book to your room.
Miss B: Mom, don't argue with me. You need to carry the book.
Me: If you want me to read you a story you need to carry the book to your room please.
Miss B: Mom, please don't make me upset. I need you to carry the book.
Me: I wish your Granna was here so she would know her wish came true.

I hope everyone has a safe and happy 4th of July!
SDB

Summer Fun

2008-06-10T13:29:00.010-05:00

It is definitely summer and the weather here down South is definitely HOT and HUMID! I have been extremely busy at work and have been adjusting to working full time, commuting 2.5 hours a day, keeping up with cooking and cleaning AND managing to do it while taking care of my four kids. Well, to be honest, as many of you know I have two, but I consider my husband and my dog kids as well, at least most of time. If I have to cook/feed and clean up after them, then they are kids on most days.

All joking aside, Baby B is doing much better at daycare and his reflux and colic has improved. He is on medicine, which I think helps, at least from the standpoint that he is getting some relief from the reflux. Poor little guy. Moms who have dealt with this know it is heartbreaking to not be able to "fix it." He will be 11 weeks tomorrow so I expect to see a big improvement over the next couple of months, when most babies outgrow the colic.

Summer fun has definitely hit the B household. Mr. B is going on a lot more rides on his Harley Davidson and Miss B is in swim lessons and cheer/gym class. Since it is so hot in summer though I don't really like to take vacation during this time, but I am looking forward to our first family getaway this fall when Baby B is older and the weather cools down a bit.

I hope everyone is doing well and I promise to post more once things calm down at work and home.
SDB

Back at Work - 2 Week Update

2008-05-21T11:42:00.002-05:00

Well, I have been back at work for two weeks now and I am trying to get caught up with everything. There were some organization changes made in my division yesterday, but I am actually excited about the changes since I will be able to focus more on the aspects of my job I love and concentrate on projects.

On another note, Baby B is a little more of a handful than Miss B was as a baby. I hate to say this, but it seems I traded issues. My c-section and recovery with Miss B was hard, but she was a great baby. My c-section and recovery with Baby B was great in comparison, but he is definitely a harder baby to soothe and handle. He is currently dealing with a combination of a little GER (reflux) and colic right now, which makes him cry more and is more fussy than Miss B was at this age.

Here is the funny thing about my/your baby/kid and their "common" problem. You don't realize how common it is (30% to 40% of babies have reflux) when you are in the other 60% to 70%. As the doctor put it, Baby B is just not one of those "happy spitters." Isn't that a great quote for the baby's memory book? "Honey, you just were not a happy spitter!" On a positive note, I have been assured he will outgrow this so I am praying for him and his home daycare worker who has to deal with his crying spells and wishes he would go to sleep. I know I will be posting more on this later.

I hope everyone is doing well and enjoying the pre-summer weather.
SDB

The Story of Baby B's Arrival

2008-04-08T13:32:00.005-05:00

Baby B has arrived and he is doing well. He arrived a few days early with much excitement. To appreciate his arrival, I must start with the week prior to giving birth. As many of you know, I spent the three months before his arrival working on house projects. All the carpet was pulled up in the house and hand-scraped hardwood floors were installed along with rearranging and decorating the kids room, painting them and setting up the new study/playroom. Well, everything was done and I was wrapping things up at work and getting ready for Baby B's arrival at the end of March, when a week before his arrival our washer drainer broke and FLOODED the floors and rugs in a section of the house. It could have been worse, but since we were home the damage was mitigated. The amazing thing is the amount of water damage that was done in just 20-30 minutes! Two hours later the professionals arrived (for a little fee of $1000) to get all the water off of the floors and to assess the damage. We had big fans, a dehumidifier and panels over the floors to soak up and dry all the water under the floors and in the walls. Luckily, the damage was minor, the floors did not buckle and all the equipment was out of the house prior to Baby B's arrival. We knew we needed a new washer and dryer, but since we had just spent a small fortune on house projects (Mr. B likes to remind me he could have gotten a new truck), we were going to wait until I went back to work this summer to purchase them. I try not to think about the irritating fact that the cost of the professionals to get the water up would have paid for one of the new appliances. In the end, I managed to research, shop and buy a new washer and dryer before Baby B's arrival.

Anyway, my c-section was scheduled for March 28th and my last day at work was March 25th. I wanted a few days to do some last minute things, get my house cleaned, etc. Wednesday morning I got up and started cleaning the house. Mid-morning, my dad calls me and says he gave my cell phone number to a telemarketer who needed to get in touch with me regarding some confidential matters. I didn't know what he was talking about, but I got a phone call as soon as I hung up with my dad. It was a guy from Telecheck. When you write a check at Walmart or Target, they scan your check/checking account, etc. Well, to make a long story shorter, I learned I am a victim of IDENTITY THEFT! Some woman opened a Wells Fargo checking account in my name using my old address from two years ago and my drivers license number. The police came to my house to file a report and I called Wells Fargo to let them knowI do not have a Wells Fargo checking account. The lady managed to write over $3,000 in hot checks within a 4 day period. After being on the phone Wednesday morning for over three hours dealing with issue, which entailed contacting all three major credit bureaus, I managed to finish the housework in the afternoon.

It was around 4:45 p.m. that day and I was frying pork chops when some hot grease splattered out of the pot and burned my hand. It caused a second degree burn, but more on that later. A few minutes later, I bent down in the kitchen to pick something up and my water broke, but at first I wasn't sure. I know, I know, I know. How could I not know? Well, unlike the movies, it was more of a small gush and trickle versus the big puddle on the floor usually shown on the big screen. Also, I really need to go to the bathroom and with baby constantly sitting on my bladder, I wasn't really sure. I wiped the floor, put cold water on my hand and continued cooking the pork chops. A few minutes later (around 5 p.m.) Mr. B came home and I told him what happened. He said I better get my bags, etc. Miss B was in her princess dress, so he dressed her and I went to the bathroom. At this point, I really was not sure if my water had broke, but when I bent down in the bathroom for my bag a little more liquid went down my leg. I took a quick 5 minute shower and got dressed.

Now, my hospital is a good 45 minutes away and we were in the car and on the way there by 5:30 p.m. I called my mom and she said she would meet us at the hospital. There was 5 o'clock traffic getting there and I was a little nervous. I started having contractions in the car and they were 4-5 minutes apart! I was induced with Miss B at 38 weeks and never really experienced labor pain since my doctor gave me an epidural at 1 cm. Miss B's heart did not like all the medicine and my body would not dilate, etc. so I wound up having a c-section with her. Even though I never experienced labor pains with her, I definitely knew these were contractions since the pressure down there was very noticeable. The funny thing is that I didn't feel a thing all day and the contractions really started once we got in the car and were on our way to the hospital. Luckily, we made it there in an hour and by the time the triage nurse checked me at 6:45 p.m. I was already 5 cm dilated. I was prepped for an emergency c-section and Baby B made his debut at 38 weeks and 5 days.

He was born on March 26, 2008 at 8:04 p.m. He weighed 7 pounds and 3 ounces and was 20 inches long. The hospital said he was 19 inches long, which is another side story. Mr. B told the nurse who was measuring him that his leg was bent, but I guess she had other priorities on her to do list. I had them remeasure Baby B and they came up with different lengths so they gave the tape measure to my mom, who by the way has been a surgical nurse for the past 30 years or so and worked for a while in a pediatrician's office, and she measured him at 20 inches. Now, I know I am anal, but I wanted it right on the birth certificate. I later found out that the state of Texas no longer puts the length on the birth certificate and I guess it is for this very reason since it seems babies are measured wrong a lot of the time. When Baby B was checked at his pediatrician 3 days after we left the hospital, they measured him at 20.25 inches and the nurse confirmed babies are measured wrong in the hospital all the time and she said Baby B would have grown .25 inches, but not 1.25 inches and that if my mom measured him at 20 inches then that is what I should put down in his baby book, etc.

Baby B will be two weeks old tomorrow and we have his 2 week check up tomorrow afternoon. I am happy to report that we are doing well and my recovery from this c-section has been a lot better. I had a really hard recovery with Miss B (incisions opened 2 weeks post surgery) so I am very grateful that my recuperation is going well.

I plan on getting back to posting a few times a week so there will be more updates and my experiences as a second time mom with a feisty soon-to-be 3 year old by her side. In the meantime, I hope everyone is doing well.

SDB

Three Weeks and Three Days

2008-03-04T07:39:00.002-06:00

Isn't it horrible when you become a bad blogger? I know I have very valid excuses with the biggest one being that Baby B will be here in three weeks and three days, if everything goes according to plan, but still you would think I could manage a few more posts, even if they are not the most interesting ones. The house is almost in order except now I need to clean out the drawers in Baby B's room and move all of Miss B's items to her new big girl room. I am swamped at work as well, which is another big reason for the lack of blogging the past few months. I am on a mission to get everything done over the next two weeks so maybe, just maybe, I can actually breathe the week before Baby B arrives.

SDB

Just Swamped

2008-02-19T12:55:00.002-06:00

So, I have been really behind on blogging and the only excuses I have are preparing the house for my baby shower, which is at my house a week from this Saturday due to logistical reasons, and, in general, getting ready for Baby B's arrival. I cannot say I mind it being at my house because it is preventing procrastination!

Since the beginning of December I have been working on house projects and I am ready for it all to be done! All the carpet and entry way tile has been pulled up and has been replaced with hand scraped hardwood floors and Miss B's new room, Baby B's room and the study/playroom have been painted. The border in Miss B's room and the chair rail in the study/playroom are finished. Baby B's new crib has been assembled. The new master bedroom furniture has arrived and Mr. B and I actually came to an agreement on a new Tempur-Pedic mattress, which was a big accomplishment if I may say so.

This past Sunday was really beautiful outside so Mr. B mowed, edged and laid fertilizer down while I put down 30 bags of mulch in the front flower beds. My goal is to finish little projects around the house before next weekend, which includes touch-up paint, decorating the kid's rooms, buying new pillows, putting down the new rugs, etc. I won't bore you with the entire list, but needless to say, I think I am doing well considering, as some of you know, I work full-time, have a 2.5 hour commute everyday and lately I have come into contact with a clingly, temper-tantrum possessed toddler (she is sweet most of the time, but I have been caught looking around to ask somebody to please give me back my little girl).

Oh, and in case you have lost count, I am almost 34 weeks pregnant. I haven't gone into panic mode yet, but I cannot believe Baby B will be here 5 weeks from Friday!

SDB

Valentine Cupcakes - XOXOXO

2008-01-28T12:23:00.001-06:00

Valentine Cupcakes

They’re a cinch to make and bring to a party or get-together.
Prep time: 15 min.
Baking time: 18-22 min.
Decoration time: 15 min.
Difficulty: Easy

What you'll need:
1 bag SNICKERS® Brand Minis for Valentine’s Day
1 bag M&M’S® Brand Milk Chocolate Candies for Valentine’s Day
1 18-oz. box your favorite cake mix
2 12-oz. cans whipped vanilla frosting
Red food coloring
3/4 cup heart-shaped sprinkles (available in your grocery store’s baking section)
24 paper cupcake liners
2 12-cup muffin tins

What to do:
Line the muffin tins with paper cupcake liners. Prepare the cake mix according to the directions on the package. Chop the SNICKERS® and fold into the batter before spooning it into the muffin cups. Bake according to the directions on the package.
Let the cupcakes cool to room temperature.
Using the red food coloring, tint one can of vanilla frosting pink. Spread 12 of the cupcakes with the pink frosting, and 12 of them with the remaining white frosting.
Roll the edges of the frosted cupcakes in the heart-shaped sprinkles. Arrange M&M’S® Brand Milk Chocolate Candies for Valentine’s Day into "X’s" and "O’s" on top of each cupcake. Arrange the cupcakes so that they look like "XOX"—or hugs & kisses! Makes 24 cupcakes.

Enjoy!
SDB

Funny Phrases

2008-01-21T15:10:00.000-06:00

So, one of the reasons I decided to start an online blog, other than it seemed like a fun idea, was because it is an online journal of sorts. I won't be divulging my deep, dark secrets (o.k. I really don't have that many anyway, but we all want to seem a little intriguing, right?), but I do wish to make note of some of the funny things about motherhood that I am dealing with.

These days, that would definitely by Miss B and the phrases she dishes right back at me. I did not know a two and a half year could be so smart. I am not talking about smart in the genius sense, but smart as in I know what you are talking about (even if I do ignore you and try to pretend I don't know what you are saying) and I know when to give you a dose of your own medicine.

It is so true what they say about kids being sponges. They will hear something once (o.k. twice if coming from me) and look out because they now have new arsenal. I want to put out a disclaimer that not all the phrases used below have been said by me, but I will admit some are definitely phrases I have said to her in the appropriate context. Over the past few months I have been subjected to the following scenarios:

1. While shopping in Lowe's I told Miss B to please stay by the basket. She was walking a little in front of me and turned around to say, "Please leave me alone. Don't bother me."
2. While grocery shopping, I reprimanded Miss B and she loudly informed everyone on the aisle, "Mom, calm down. Stop hollering at me."
3. After telling her three times to please get in the bath tub the other night, she let me know in her exasperated tone, "You are killing me" because I was interrupting her play time. (This one is my confession because I say this one.)
4. She told her daycare worker the other day to "Listen to me right now," while pointing her index finger. I have also been subjected to this one lately.
6. I overheard her tell her baby doll last week, "You're being a toot!"
7. "Mom, it's not perfect!" (I know this one is going to haunt me, especially since I have a type A personality with a perfectionist side.)
8. "You're kidding me."
9. "That's just incredible."
10. "Oh man!"
11. "Wow, that's really cool" and "Wow, that's just awesome."
12. "I can't believe it."
13. "Mom, I don't think so" and "Of course, Mom."
14."Mom, get up. It's a beautiful day."

When Baby B makes his debut in 9 weeks, I have decided I should probably not go shopping with two young kids unless I absolutely have to. I have my hands full with going to the store with just one toddler and how the moms of multiples do it is beyond me. I think of my mom managing with four kids and I am astonished that her sanity level and mental capacity remained (mostly) intact all those years ago while working full time.

In the future, I may need to bribe my husband at times to watch both of the kids at once for a two to three hour stretch or I may be one of those moms who puts everyone to bed and goes grocery shopping at 9 p.m. during the work week. Come to think of it, I may enjoy grocery shopping at 9 p.m. by myself. I could grab one of those new decaf "skinny" lattes from Starbucks and since I will be by myself it could be the next best thing to being isolated in a cabin by myself or playing hooky from work to go to the spa for the day while the kids are at daycare. I have a game plan with a few options, so I will try not to panic in the meantime.

SDB
P.S. The next time I talk to my mom I need to tell her what a wonderful job she did!

Where Do I Start?

2008-01-17T13:10:00.000-06:00

I cannot believe January is halfway through already! I have been busy at work getting caught up and getting projects going for 2008. I am 29 weeks and my baby boy will be here in 10 weeks and I am in a frenzy to get everything done in time. Our hardwood floors are installed, but I am waiting to rearrange furniture. Our new master bedroom furniture should be here February 1st, so I will start rearranges room then. Miss B is getting a new "big girl" room and my antique queen size bedroom set.

Her room is already painted and the border will be put up February 1st. I also have scheduled for that date for the chair rail to be put up in the study/playroom. My small desk and computer is in there, but I am turning it into a study/playroom. I am attempting to have all the kids play items and toys in that one room. Now I know I am being a little optimistic, but I am going to try anyway. The room was just painted as well so the chair rail is next and I have plans to stencil the walls later down the road based on my priority list.

And the baby's room you may ask? Well, the bedding should arrive in the next week or so and then I can pick out paint colors and have his room painted and put together. I don't think I have ever tried to do so much rearranging and coordination of so many projects at once. I think I am doing pretty well considering I am working full time and have a 2.5 hour commute every day and have a sassy toddler to handle these days.

I will keep you all posted on the progress. I hope everyone is having a good New Year.
SDB

Nesting Baby-Bluebird Cupcakes

2008-01-07T12:59:00.001-06:00

I am in such a nesting mood right now, especially since I have less than 3 months before my little man arrives. I won't begin to mention the projects on my to-do-list that I want (and need) completed before his arrival. These Nesting Baby-Bluebird Cupcakes are perfect right down to their name and color.

INGREDIENTS (Makes 1 dozen)
1 1/2 cups shredded coconut (about 5 ounces)
Vanilla Cupcakes
Chocolate Buttercream
Yellow and light-blue food coloring

DIRECTIONS
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Spread coconut on a rimmed baking sheet; bake until light brown, 8 to 10 minutes, rotating pan once. Set aside to cool.

2. Lightly frost cupcakes with 1 cup chocolate buttercream; set aside.
Tint 2 tablespoons reserved buttercream pale yellow; place in a pastry bag fitted with a #349 Ateco leaf tip; set aside. Tint remaining buttercream light blue; place in a pastry bag fitted with a #11 Ateco plain round tip, and pipe three bluebird heads, 3/4 inch in diameter, onto each cupcake. Using leaf tip, pipe yellow beaks. With a toothpick, add melted-chocolate eyes. Form each nest with 2 tablespoons toasted coconut.

Enjoy!
SDB

Happy New Year!

2008-01-04T10:07:00.000-06:00

Wow, I cannot believe it has been almost a month since I posted. I was off of work for over three weeks and my computer was not hooked up at home since I was doing projects around the house on top of being out of town for a week. I am back at work and cannot believe how fast the time is going to fly for me from now until the end of March. I am entering my last trimester and have so much to do over the next few months. I hope everyone had a fabulous holiday season and has a great weekend.

SDB

Rudolph the Red-nosed Cupcake

2007-12-06T07:32:00.000-06:00

Your family will shout with glee at the sight of this fun and simple treat --a cupcake fashioned after a certain Christmas Eve sleigh guide.

RECIPE INGREDIENTS:
A cooled cupcake (baked from your favorite recipe) Chocolate frosting
Round, red lollipops (we used a Blow Pop)
M&M's candies
Black decorators' gel frosting
Pretzels
Red shoestring licorice

1. To make one, first frost a cooled cupcake (baked from your favorite recipe) with chocolate frosting.

2. Unwrap a round, red lollipop (we used a Blow Pop), trim the stem slightly, and stick it into the center of the cupcake for Rudolph's very shiny nose.

3. For eyes, set 2 M&M's candies in place, then dot them with black decorators' gel frosting. Carefully break large thin pretzels into antler shapes (this may take some practice!) and insert them into the top of the cupcake. Finally, add a short piece of red shoestring licorice for a mouth.

Enjoy!
SDB

Christmas Shopping

2007-11-29T07:32:00.000-06:00

Wow, I can't believe how time is flying now that the holidays are upon us. I did venture out on Black Friday and I am pleased to say I returned to work on Monday with it completely done! I even spent three hours Sunday night wrapping gifts. I am definitely in get-it-done mode since I have a major house project coming up in a week and a half. I am taking a week off of work and we are ripping all the carpet up in our house and putting down hand-scraped hardwood floors. After the holidays, I plan on taking some more time off in January and February to paint, decorate and move Miss B to her new big girl room and then paint and decorate the baby's room.

I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving and is enjoying their holiday shopping!
SDB

It's a BOY!

2007-11-19T13:20:00.001-06:00

We have received a confirmation Baby B is a boy. I went to the doctor at 17 weeks and the ultrasound technician was kind enough to take a quick look in between her other appointments even though I wasn't scheduled. Baby B was not cooperating since he was sleeping, turned away from me, had his behind sitting at the bottom and a leg over this private parts. He did however move his leg for a quick moment and the ultrasound technician said she thought she say boy parts, but not to take the tags off of anything since she didn't get the best look.

On Thursday, Baby B was awake so we got a much better look and it is definitely a boy. Everyone is real excited! One sister even squealed/screamed on the phone. I am the oldest of four girls so I have pondered over the past few weeks, "What am I going to do with a boy?" It will definitely be fun for me to experience the differences between the sexes in a whole new light. I am thrilled and excited with my new adventure and my new blessing.

SDB

Mom, You Need to Be Nice to Me

2007-11-14T10:31:00.000-06:00

So, like all mothers of toddlers/preschoolers, I am struggling with Miss B, who is sweet, smart, sassy and above all STUBBORN! If my child does not want to do it, she will just ignore you. Seriously. She will do her version of the eye roll and turn her head. A few months ago, she started telling Mr. B and I to, "Calm down" anytime we raised our tone to her while telling her do something or she was getting reprimanded, etc.

Well, this past weekend I told her she couldn't have something because she kept changing her mind and I had already given her the other 4 items she had requested in a row. I am sure my tone raised a notch when I told her this and my beautiful child did not miss a beat and responded to me like a 29 year old instead of a 29 month old by calmly telling me, "Mom, you need to be nice to me." I would have laughed out loud if I wasn't shocked by her delivery and serious tone. I am officially adding the phrases, "Mom, calm down" and "Mom, you have to be nice to me" under the stubborn category because Miss B has definitely learned how to not give up easily during a disagreement.

On another note, I am so excited because tomorrow I have my 20 week ultrasound and I hope I can share some wonderful news on Friday. I hope everyone is having a good week.

SDB

Pumpkin Chip Cupcakes

2007-11-13T12:25:00.000-06:00

INGREDIENTS
1 cup all-purpose flour
3/4 cup whole wheat flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg
2 eggs, lightly beaten
1 cup canned pumpkin
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1/2 cup honey
1/3 cup water
1/2 cup chopped walnuts
miniature chocolate chips
FROSTING:
1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese, softened
1/4 cup butter or margarine, softened
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 cups confectioners' sugar

DIRECTIONS
In a large bowl, combine the first seven ingredients. Combine the eggs, pumpkin, oil, honey and water; mix well. Stir into dry ingredients just until combined; fold in walnuts and chocolate chips.
Fill greased or foil-lined muffin cups three-fourths full. Bake at 350 degrees F for 20-25 minutes or until a toothpick comes out clean. Cool for 10 minutes before removing from pans to wire racks to cool completely.
For frosting, in a small mixing bowl, beat the cream cheese, butter and vanilla until fluffy. Gradually beat in confectioners' sugar until smooth. Frost cooled cupcakes.

Enjoy!
SDB

Movie Review: American Gangster

2007-11-06T12:05:00.000-06:00

I wanted to post the movie review yesterday, but I was swamped with activities at work and we had international visitors in the offices. The movie was really good and I would recommend it. The main two characters do not interact that much in the beginning, but you follow each of their stories until they meet up. The movie is based on a true story and, in my opinion, was worth seeing. It really gave a different prespective on the drug trafficking in the late 60's and early 70's outside of the typical Italian mob scenarios we usually see portrayed.

However, I must warn you to be prepared to be at the movies for at least 3 hours. With the announcements, previews and the movie we were there a little over three hours. Is it me or are the previews getting longer? Anyway, Mr. B and I both really enjoyed the movie, the performances were great and the storyline did not loose my interest.

Two thumbs up. Enjoy!
SDB

Movie Date: American Gangster

2007-11-02T12:52:00.000-05:00

Wow, it is Friday already and the week has flown by, which is good. I have a baby shower to go to tomorrow afternoon, but after that Mr. B and I are going to the movies! Now, I know for some people this event would not be huge, but since we haven't been to the movies in ages together, I am real excited. We are going to see American Gangster with Denzel Washington and Russell Crowe, which has gotten great reviews.

I could not ask for more (except for a clean house when I get home - I can daydream, right?) Oh, and the baby is looking forward to eating popcorn with Milk Duds mixed in it with no interruptions! Of course, you all know I really want the popcorn and Milk Duds, but I can blame it on the baby for a while, so why not? I will let you guys know on Monday how it was.

Have a great weekend!
SDB

Happy Halloween: Spiderweb Cheesecake

2007-10-31T11:26:00.001-05:00

I am back in town and have been trying to get caught up at work. I will not even begin to mention the housework and laundry that needs to be done. I must say it is a little too warm here today for my taste. It is supposed to cool down this evening though for trick-or-treating. Miss B is going to be a princess fairy this year. One of my sisters lives a street away from us, so I am going to broil or grill some steaks at her house while she helps Miss B put glitter makeup on her face and does her hair. This is the first year Miss B will really enjoy dressing up and going from house to house so I am excited and ready to go trick-or-treating.

My cravings are all over the board lately, but right this minute, I could go for a slice of this Spiderweb Cheesecake.

INGREDIENTS
1 (.25 ounce) envelope unflavored gelatin
1/4 cup cold water
2 (8 ounce) packages cream cheese, softened
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup whipping cream
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 (9 inch) prepared chocolate crumb crust
2 tablespoons semisweet chocolate chips
1 tablespoon butter or margarine

DIRECTIONS
In a small saucepan, sprinkle gelatin over water; let stand for 1 minute. Heat gelatin; stir until dissolved. Remove from the heat; cool slightly. In a mixing bowl, beat the cream cheese and sugar until smooth. Gradually beat in cream, vanilla and gelatin mixture until smooth. Pour into crust.
In a microwave, melt chocolate chips and butter; stir until smooth. Transfer to a heavy-duty resealable bag; cut a small hole in a corner of bag. Pipe a circle of chocolate in center of cheesecake. Pipe evenly spaced thin concentric circles about 1/2 in. apart over filling. Beginning with the center circle, gently pull a toothpick through circles toward outer edge. Wipe toothpicks clean. Repeat to complete web pattern. Cover and refrigerate for at least 2 hours before cutting.

I hope everyone has a safe and happy Halloween!
SDB

Business Trip

2007-10-22T14:42:00.000-05:00

I don't have anything real exciting to write other than my to-do list is pretty long for a Monday. One of the most important things I need to do this evening is pack. I am leaving for a business trip tomorrow (returning on Friday) and I will be dropping Miss B off at the inlaws along the way. A cold front has finally come through and the temperatures are actually below 80 degrees. I will actually get to wear some sweaters this week on my business trip, which is a little further north, which will be a nice change of pace.

I hope everyone has a good week!

SDB

Cupcake Graveyard

2007-10-17T11:05:00.000-05:00

I love chocolate covered graham crackers so I thought this was another perfect Halloween cupcake from All Recipes.

INGREDIENTS
1 (18.25 ounce) package chocolate cake mix
2 (16 ounce) packages vanilla frosting
3/4 cup chocolate sandwich cookie crumbs
24 chocolate covered graham cracker cookies

DIRECTIONS
Prepare and bake cake mix according to package directions for cupcakes.
In a medium bowl stir 1 package of frosting with the cookie crumbs. Frost cooled cupcakes.
Fill a pastry bag, fitted with a plain tip, with remaining white frosting. Write R.I.P. on each chocolate covered graham cracker cookie. Stand a decorated cookie on top of each cupcake so that it looks like a tombstone. Place the cupcakes on a large cookie sheet that has been covered with green paper. Place paper ghosts and bats randomly through the graveyard. Serve!

Enjoy!

SDB

Weekend Recap: Scarecrow Festival

2007-10-15T09:16:00.000-05:00

Now that cooler temperatures are starting to greet us, I am trying to do a few more outdoor activities on the weekends. Mr. B, Miss B and I went to the Scarecrow Festival on Saturday for a few hours. It was pretty crowded, but we had a good time walking around and visiting the booths and various vendors. I didn't find much to buy, but I did buy Miss B tons of pony tails with bows attached.

Miss B's hair is very fine and it is finally getting long enough where I can put it in a pony tail in the back. She winds up pulling her pony tail out after a while, but I couldn't resist buying her the pony tails with the bow/ribbon already attached around the pony tail. I bought her one in every color and after seeing how much I spent, Mr. B was glad I didn't find anything else to buy. It wasn't until we were driving home that I started thinking about how long the ribbon on the bows are in comparision to her little pony tail. Oh well, even if she can't wear them for a while, at least I will be prepared when her hair gets a little longer.

SDB

There's a Baby in Mommy's Tummy!

2007-10-08T14:40:00.000-05:00

Yes, I am finally PREGNANT with kiddo # 2! I was going to share my good news last week, but Miss B got a stomach virus in the middle of the week and then I came down with her head cold from a week or so ago along with the onset of her stomach virus, which hit me like a ton of bricks this weekend. Thank goodness, I am feeling much better today. The wonderful E reminded me I was side tracked last week, when I saw she had shared her exciting news as well.

I am 14.5 weeks along and, of course, we are excited. It took us a while to get pregnant with this one (11 months versus 2 months with Miss B, but to be honest we "tried" some months and not others) and looking back I am very happy with the timing. The kids will be right under three years apart and I happy they will be three years apart in school versus two years apart, which I think is great spacing for us. Mr. B is seven years older than me and since I am the oldest of four girls I always knew I didn't want more than two kids.

Of course, you all know this now means you will have to endure some posts about pregnancy issues, baby related items and the wonderful things that are part of the package. The best part of the pregnancy to date is having Miss B pat my stomach and say, "There's a baby in Mommy's tummy!"

SDB

Wicked Witch Cupcakes

2007-10-08T11:57:00.000-05:00

I found these fun Halloween cupcakes at Martha Stewart. I love the chocolate sugar cones on top!

Ingredients (Makes 12):

24 brown mini M&Ms plus , more for filling (optional)

Hershey's Chocolate Cupcakes

Dirty Green Simple Buttercream

12 chocolate sugar cones

1 pound black licorice laces, cut into 1/4-inch, 1/2-inch and 2-inch lengths

12 candy corns

Directions:

Using a melon baller, scoop out the center of each cupcake, and fill with mini M&Ms, if desired.
Cover the tops of each cupcake with a generous mound (about 1/3 cup) of buttercream. Insert one candy corn into each cupcake to form a nose. Using brown mini M&Ms, insert two into each cupcake to form eyes. Place two short lengths of licorice above the eyes to form eyebrows for the witch. Place the shorter licorice lengths above the eyebrows to form bangs. Place an inverted cone on top of bangs, pressing gently into buttercream to adhere. Place the longer licorice lengths under the cone hat to form the hair.

Enjoy!

SDB

Fall's Wonderful Gifts

2007-10-02T09:48:00.000-05:00

This is the time of year when I sometimes wish I could just pack up my car and hit the open road to view and experience fall's wonderful gifts. I will admit this fantasy trip is without Mr. B, Miss B, and our dog. I wouldn't mind taking the trip with my mom and/or my sisters, but anyone who comes with me has to be willing to stop at little towns off the beaten path, visit numerous antique stores and indulge in spiced apple cider or pumpkin spice lattes on a whim.

Of course, the most important part of the trip for me would be seeing the amazing colors that fall brings with it. If there was one thing (o.k. two since traffic/commuting is up there on my list) I could change about where I live, it would be to have four seasons and experience the beauty shown in the picture above. If you are fortunate to experience this upcoming gift, please take a moment to enjoy it.

SDB

Spooky Banana-Fudge Cupcakes

2007-10-01T13:15:00.000-05:00

1 (18.25-once) package Betty Crocker® Supreme brownie mix (with chocolate syrup pouch) Water, oil and eggs called for on brownie mix package

1 medium banana, mashed

1 Betty Crocker® Candy Maker™ Halloween candy set

1 (6-ounce) pourable pouch Betty Crocker® Candy Maker™ milk chocolate flavor

1 (6-ounce) pourable pouch Betty Crocker® Candy Maker™ white chocolate flavor or white chocolate flavor orange color

1 tub Betty Crocker® Rich & Creamy chocolate or vanilla ready-to-spread frosting

1 (6-ounce) container Betty Crocker® pumpkin patch decor treats, if desired

Heat oven to 350°F.
Place paper baking cup in each of 12 muffin cups (2 3/4x1 1/4 inches).
In medium bowl, stir brownie mix, chocolate syrup pouch, water, oil and eggs until well blended.
Stir in banana.
Fill muffin cups with brownie mixture.
Bake 25 to 30 minutes or until edges are set. Cool 3 minutes; remove from muffin cups. Cool completely, about 30 minutes.

Meanwhile, melt Candy Maker in pouch as directed on package. Squeeze candy coating into Halloween-shaped candy molds. Refrigerate candy molds about 10 minutes or until candy is set. Turn upside down on plate to remove candies from molds. Frost cupcakes with frosting; top with Halloween candies. Sprinkle with decors.

Makes 24 brownies.
Tip: While cupcakes are cooling, melt the chocolate pouches and fill candy molds. When you are ready to frost the cupcakes, the candies will be ready.

Enjoy!
SDB

Speaking of Coffee

2007-09-28T13:09:00.001-05:00

E, who mentioned in her blog this week about her quest to find a Dunkin Donuts in New York City, got me thinking about my current coffee craze. I am head over heels right now with International Delight's Belgian White Chocolate Macadamia Nut liquid creamer. This is my new love until my beloved fall edition of Pumpkin Spice Latte hits the stores.

SDB

Personalized Halloween Bowl

2007-09-25T11:19:00.001-05:00

Fall fever has definitely struck and I am starting to look foward to all the fun it brings. I came across this adorable halloween bowl from Personal Creations that can be personalized. You get to pick the characters and then personalize each one with a family member's name underneath. They even have a dog/cat ghost. How cute is that?

SDB

Spider Cupcakes

2007-09-25T10:54:00.000-05:00

In honor of Halloween (can you believe it is only a month away?), I am going to post some fun Halloween cupcake ideas over the next month. To start with, I love cupcakes and Oreo cookies so this is the perfect Halloween cupcake for me.

1 (2-layer size) package chocolate cake mix

1 (4-serving size) package JELL-O Chocolate Flavor Instant Pudding & Pie Filling

1/3 cup KOOL-AID Orange Flavor Sugar-Sweetened Soft Drink Mix 2 tablespoons hot water

1 (16-ounce) can ready-to-spread white frosting

24 OREO Chocolate Sandwich Cookies 12 pieces black string licorice (32 inch each) 48 miniature candy-coated chocolate pieces

PREPARE cake batter as directed on package; blend in dry pudding mix. Spoon evenly into 24 paper-lined medium muffin cups. Bake as directed on package for cupcakes. Cool completely.

DISSOLVE drink mix in hot water. Stir into frosting until blended. Frost cupcakes, reserving some frosting for attaching candies.

CUT each licorice piece into sixteen 2-inch pieces; set aside. Place 1 cookie on top of each cupcake. Insert 4 licorice pieces into each side of each cookie for the "spider's legs." (Eight licorice pieces for each cookie.) Add 2 candy-coated chocolate pieces to top of each cookie using some of the reserved frosting for the "spider's eyes."

Makes 2 dozen cupcakes or 24 servings, one cupcake each.
Tip: Cupcakes can be decorated up to 8 hours ahead.

Enjoy!
SDB

Middle Name Meme

2007-09-20T14:56:00.000-05:00

I have not done a meme yet, but since I was part of a group tag by TPP, here is my middle name meme.

F = Fruit. I love almost all kinds of fruit.

A = Anne of Green Gables. I loved reading the books and watching the movies growing up. I am determined to visit Novia Scotia one day where the movies were filmed. The scenery in the movies is breathtaking.

Y = Yearly Traditions. I love old ones and creating new ones, especially now I that have a child to create memories.

E = Ears: My ears and Miss B's ears to be exact. I like my ears. I know it is a weird body part to like, but I do. They are not too big, they have a nice shape and I am happy Miss B has my ears versus Mr. B's ears.

SDB

J Crew: 20% off Final Sale

2007-09-20T09:45:00.000-05:00

J Crew is having one of their 20% off final sales so I stopped in to grab this sash and a few others, including the navy/green one. At $7.99 each, I think they are my preppy bargain of the week. A big thanks to TPP who always shares her great finds.

SDB

Football Cupcakes

2007-09-19T09:44:00.000-05:00

Since a lot of us are excited about the fall weather and football, I thought it would be nice to find some fun Sunday afternoon game snacks. Aren't these football cupcakes from FamilyFun.com the cutest! Even if you don't love football, they are sure to put a smile on your face when eating them.

Step 1:
Frost a cooled cupcake (baked from your favorite recipe) with green frosting, then mark the yard lines with white decorators' gel.

Step 2:
For a pennant, wrap a fruit leather triangle around a pretzel stick and plant it in the field as shown.

Step 3:
Set a chocolate-covered almond or brown almond M&M football topped with white decorators' gel laces on the field, and you're sure to score points with your favorite sports fans.

Enjoy!
SDB

Like Mother Like Daughter

2007-09-18T15:39:00.000-05:00

Miss B and I were in the mall this past weekend so I stopped in at Bailey Banks & Biddle to get my wedding ring cleaned and to browse for a minute. Miss B loves to wear my charm bracelets so when I saw this little cutie I had to get it for her as one of her Christmas presents. This little girl's charm bracelet is by Honora and there are different colored pearls on the charms. The only problem I am going to have is getting Miss B to understand she cannot wear it to daycare every day.

SDB

Fran's Chocolates

2007-09-13T10:31:00.001-05:00

For a truly decadent sweet and salty treet try Fran's award-winning gray salt caramels dipped in dark chocolate. I think these are the perfect combination for when you want to satisfy both a salty and a sweet tooth.

SDB

Back at Work

2007-09-10T11:46:00.000-05:00

Well, I made it back from the in-laws last Monday and was off of work the rest of last week. The weekend away was fun and I got some final fall shopping done for Miss B. I have said the following statement at least a hundred times to my family and friends, but I don't think I have mentioned it in blogland. Being a SAHM is the absolute hardest job in the world! Even before I had my child, I knew it was and I have always been secure in the fact that I am not cut out to be a SAHM. Well, let me revise that statement just a little. If my husband made tons of money, inherited tons of money or won the lotto and I could afford Mother's Day Out, a country club membership and unlimited activities along with unlimited shopping, then maybe I could do it. But let's get back to my reality.

After being with Miss B for a week on my own I was ready to get back to work! I love my child, but these terrible two's are an understatement. When your 27 month old child tells you, "No mom, you mind me," it is time to get back to the office. Discipline. Everyone says to discipline her. What do they think I am doing? I try timeout. I try a little pop on the bottom. I try not to resort to hollering although I must confess the occassional raising of the voice is even used when I am exasperated. Sigh. I did mention I love my child beyond imagine, right? My heart sometimes aches when I stare at her and think how blessed I am.

I want to finish up on a funny note since I don't want to scare all the soon-to-be moms out there. We were all lying in bed this weekend enjoying a lazy afternoon and Mr. B got exasperated with something on the T.V. program and he made a comment to me about it. Miss B was sitting on his stomach and said, "Daddy, what is the matter? "What's your problems?" It was so cute and funny I didn't even correct her grammar. I am blessed Miss B is my two year old (whole package included) and I am blessed to be back at work. I said an extra prayer of gratitude for her wonderful home daycare this morning.

SDB

Green Acres

2007-08-30T14:59:00.000-05:00

This week is flying by and I am grateful tomorrow is Friday. The drive to my in-laws is only 2.5 hours so we will get there tomorrow night for a long weekend away. There are a couple of reasons I love going to their house (other than the fact that I actually like my in-laws). One is that I get a break from housework and cooking! I know that is sad, but it is so true. I know Mr. B would not find this as amusing as I do, but seriously, a vaction would not destress me as much as having a wife would!

The second reason I love going there is they actually live in what I consider the country. Any time I can go there, sit on the back porch with some ice tea and see fields around me, which has my sister and brother-in-law's horses meandering in the pasture along with their adopted emu (I kid you not), I feel like I have escaped my little chaotic world. A little Green Acres in my neck of the woods. What more could a city girl (wanting to escape for a little while) ask for?

SDB

Oh My Gosh

2007-08-27T13:00:00.000-05:00

I must say the end of my week was much better than the middle of my week. We had a great weekend and since I am off of work next week, I am hoping this week flies by. I am not going on vacation, per say, but will be working around the house (read clean out a closet or two) and I am determined to take Miss B to the museum one day for some mommy-and-me fun.

On a side note, Miss B walked around the house all weekend saying, "Oh my gosh!" She will interject this phrase at just the right moment, which makes it all the more funny. I keep telling myself she could be repeating worse phrases. What cracks me up everytime I hear her say it though is the slightly exasperated, melodramatic tone she uses, which I know she gets from me. I hope everyone has a great week.

SDB

Is It Friday Yet?

2007-08-23T12:50:00.000-05:00

I have been trying to post for days now and I haven't been able to get around to it. I am truly ready for Friday as this has not been the smoothest week. Last night, the volume on our plasma T.V. in the living room went out. It is only one and a half years old so it is not like this should be happening yet. You would think a $2000 T.V. would last a little longer. Does anyone else remember the day when a $200 T.V. would work for twelve years?

Anyway, on top of that I was eating an oatmeal raisin cookie last night and broke my tooth. Now granted, when I bit into the cookie I thought it was a little hard. No problem. I got some milk to go with it. My tooth had other ideas. So there I am eating my cookie when this crunchy thing shows up. It took me a moment to realize the outside of one of my bottom molars had a big chunk of tooth missing! I went to the dentist today at lunch and they did a temporary fix. At least I don't have to go around this weekend with it bothering me.

SDB

Las Vegas Recap

2007-08-17T12:08:00.000-05:00

Well, I am back from Las Vegas. We did a lot of shopping and walking around on Saturday and had dinner that evening at Isla Mexican Kitchen and Tequila Bar located in Treasure Island. Sunday morning we had brunch at the Wynn and Sunday evening we saw Cirque du Soleil's Zumanity. My coworker picked it out without knowing the details, but it was still interesting and fun. The conference started on Monday, which kept us pretty busy since they had evening activities planned as well. The blowout party was Tuesday night at Pure Nighclub in Caesar's Palace, which was pretty amazing.

All in all, I had fun, but I must confess Las Vegas is not exactly my cup of tea. There were so many people and it can be sensory overload if you are not into that sort of thing. Of course, I would never go back during the summer months since it is so incredibly hot. Don't get me wrong, now I know hot, living in the very humid south, but the heat there is so intense it takes your breath away. You walk outside and it feels like your skin is being fried like chicken on a Sunday afternoon. One afternoon we were standing outside waiting for the bus and a breeze blew by. It was the hottest blast of air imaginable and it was the first time in my life I preferred not to have a breeze! It is good to be home.

SDB

Viva Las Vegas

2007-08-10T11:05:00.001-05:00

I leave for Las Vegas in the morning and have 50 million things to do before I go. Since I am exaggering just a little, I really only have 5 million things to do. I am going to be so glad when I am sitting on the plane tomorrow knowing I have a few days to relax and have some downtime. I hope everyone has a great weekend!

SDB

Quick Stress Busters

2007-08-08T07:57:00.000-05:00

I came across this article about stress and thought it was a great reminder to me on how I can decompress, especially since I know I will have more stress in my life over the next two years.

Lately, "I'm so stressed" has become a universal lament. Between long hours at work, the demands of family life and the general state of the world, perhaps it's just unavoidable....Assuming that a week on your own private island is not an option, here are some easy ways you can combat stress in five minutes:

1. Take A Deep Breath: Meditation and moments of silence are not just for monks. "The benefits of meditation include a lower heart rate, less chronic pain and help with headaches, depression and anxiety," says Dr. Ring.

2. Turn Your World Upside Down: People who practice yoga regularly experience less stress and better sleep, according to Beth Shaw, founder of YogaFit Training Systems in Torrance, California. By marrying your breath to your movement, yoga can help foster a sense of peace.

3. Speak Up: People with strong social connections tend to experience less stress and depression than those who are more isolated. "It is more important to develop a few close friendships with people in whom you can confide than to have a long list of acquaintances," says Dr. Jay Winner, auther of Stress Management Made Simple: Effective Ways To Beat Stress for Better Health. "Just sharing your feelings can be very helpful.

4. Make an "I Did It" List: The most productive way to combat stress is to foster a sense of control. Remembering the times when you have successfully handled difficult tasks in the past will help you feel more confident about your current challenges.

Since I don't have my own private island or secluded cottage in the mountains, I will have to keep this list handy. I hope everyone has a great day!

SDB

5 Minutes for Mom Contest

2007-08-06T14:30:00.001-05:00

This is a great giveaway from 5 Minutes for Mom for a free flat screen T.V., courtesy of Best Buy.

Enter the contest by Friday, August 17, 2007 at 12:00 a.m. EST. Good Luck!

SDB

How About

2007-08-06T08:40:00.000-05:00

Miss B and I had a great, but exhausting weekend. Both birthday parties were a lot of fun. Mr. B got yard work done and washed his Harley since he will be taking a road trip to see his parents and brother this weekend while I am in Las Vegas. They only live 2 1/2 hours away so as long as it is not raining, he loves to take it on the highway now and then.

On a side note, I must confess one of my little downfalls as a parent. Before I had kids I thought I was never going to be one of those moms who lets their kids eat whatever they want, whenever they want. I feel my reasons are justifiable such as:

1. I want my kids to eat healthy to ensure proper nutrition and growth.
2. Maintain a healthy weight because I struggled with my weight growing up and the rise of childhood obesity in our country is frightening.
3. Keep all their teeth at least until college graduation when I can officially say I have, hopefully, raised them to be law abiding, contributing citizens.
4. Impulse control - I know it is hard to teach a toddler they can't always have it right now, but hey, it is my job as a parent to teach the hard leason you don't always get it when you want it.

Which leads me to our breakfast conversation on Sunday morning:
Me: What do you want for breakfast? Would you like some toast with butter?
Miss B: No
Me: Would you like some leftover pizza?
Miss B: No
Me: What would you like to eat?
Miss B: How about some chips.

I did win this one and fixed her toast with butter, but I suspect she licked the butter off the toast and gave the rest to our miniature schnauzer. Her story is our dog took her toast, but I know better. I must confess she gets to eat a little more junk food at night during the week than I would care for her to have. My only consolation is knowing she eats healthier during the day at daycare.

SDB

Chez Ami

2007-08-03T09:22:00.001-05:00

I was browsing Perfectly Pink this morning and came across her post for Chez Ami. I love this art smock and will have to put this on Miss B's wish list.

Miss B and I are going to a birthday party tomorrow and another one on Sunday. Is it me or does it seem like kids go to a lot more birthday parties these days than we did way back when? Maybe my age is affecting my memory, but every month since February, we have been attending birthday parties. There are definitely a lot of summer babies out there so we know what the parents were doing during the winter months! I hope everyone has a great weekend.

SDB

I Go Everyday

2007-08-01T10:44:00.000-05:00

Seriously, sometimes the only entertainment I need comes from my 26 month old daughter. Miss B was potty trained at 24 months old so after two months she pretty much feels like a veteran these days.

Anyhoo, when I picked her up from daycare yesterday, Mr. C (a Grandpa in his 70s married to Mrs. C, a Grandma in her 60s) told me she had said something funny. At one point in the day he asked Miss B if she needed/wanted to go potty and, in a tone I can only imagine, she replied, "I go potty everyday."

Translation = Mr. C, you know I go potty everyday so I will let you know when I need to go. Now I am off to play some more.

SDB

Graduate School

2007-07-30T13:00:00.001-05:00

I have been talking about going back to school for years now (literally), but it seems that life has a funny way of keeping me busy. This summer I realized, seriously, I am not getting any younger, so I decided July 10th to apply to graduate school knowing the deadline for admissions was July 15th. So I through together my admissions package and found out late last week I got accepted. I am very excited, but also nervous. Not wanting to kill myself, I opted for the 4 year MBA program versus the 2 year MBA program.

Here is what cracks me up. I talked to the admissions officer last week and she said they like to see people complete the program within 5 years, which seems reasonable. I asked her what if something happens and you cannot complete it in that timeframe because of a major life event, etc.? She went on to say they undertand things sometimes come up now and then. The school actually requires all degree plans to be completed within 10 years of the acceptance date.

My first thought after hearing this: Relief because I know I will have a major life event.
My second thought after hearing this: Surely I can get an MBA in 10 years.

I heard recently it is o.k. to struggle, but not o.k. to quit so I salute myself this bright Monday for pursuing a goal and a dream even if it takes me 10 years.

SDB

I Wish I Had...

2007-07-25T15:30:00.000-05:00

This afternoon I have a headache and am glad I will be going home soon. I received some news today and I have been thinking, "I wish I had...," which is probably contributing to my headache.

I am confessing it sometimes takes a life event(s) to prompt me to:

1. Stop procrastinating
2. Get off my butt and get moving, or
3. Just forget about it and scratch it off the revolving to-do-list.

SDB

Preppy Bargain of the Week

2007-07-23T11:22:00.000-05:00

J.Crew is currently offering an additional 20% off their sale items, but hurry because it ends this Wednesday, July 25, 2007. I picked up this adorable dress for Miss B in bright azalea and I also got her the classic navy one since they are now $31.99 compared to the original price of $158. How cute are these?
SDB

Summer Sale at Sara Langley Designs

2007-07-19T13:56:00.000-05:00

I know it is the middle of summer and we don't want to think about fall quite yet, but retailers are starting to make room for their fall merchandise, which means great end of summer sales. Sara Langley Designs is having their summer sale and if you use the code Summerend during checkout, you will receive a 25% discount.

I know it is early, but now is the perfect time to start buying (and stashing) a few Christmas gifts along the way. Of course, don't forget to stock up on some great items for yourself.

SDB

Las Vegas Trip Next Month

2007-07-18T12:40:00.000-05:00

I found out yesterday I am going on a business trip to Las Vegas in the middle of August. The conference is being held at the Bellagio Hotel and Casino, which is where my co-workers (all ladies leaving behind husbands and kids) and I will be staying. I must confess this will not be my hardest job duty during the month of August.

Obviously, I am excited about going and I have heard there are a lot of things to do even if you are not into the casino scene. Since this will be my first trip to Las Vegas, if anyone has any information on what to do or see, I would greatly appreciate it.

SDB

Prep by Month 2008 Calendar

2007-07-16T10:27:00.000-05:00

Jenny Bee Designs has just announed her Prep by Month 2008 calendar is ready. They are $15 each and are a great gift idea and/or stocking stuffer. I got one for my office cubicle last year and love it.

SDB

Texas Hold'Em

2007-07-13T11:43:00.000-05:00

Mr. B is in a golf tournament tomorrow and it just so happens to be held in a town that has casinos. Needless to say, my husband will be very happy since he will be able to do two of his favorite things in one day, which is play golf all day and then play poker all night. Now I am not a big fan of gambling, per se, since I know you lose more than you win and I personally rather spend my money elsewhere, but I must confess I am looking forward to going out of town with him tomorrow for a couple of reasons.

Mr. B and I will be traveling by ourselves since we have already shipped Miss B to my parent's home. I don't think I need to elaborate on that one. The second reason I am looking forward to going is more of a surprise to me. Thanks to recent couples poker night down my street, I have learned how to play a little Texas Hold'Em Poker and, to be honest, it is fun. This weekend will be the first time I play at the big tables, but I am hoping to beat the odds and come home a winner or at least break even. I hope everyone has a great weekend.

SDB

Life is Filled with a lot of Blanks

2007-07-12T11:28:00.000-05:00

I have been thinking lately about something I heard in church a few weeks ago. Whether or not you are religious or spiritual, etc. it struck me as having such a simple, universal application and, hopefully, thought provoking aspect that I thought I would share it.

"We cannot always understand why things happen. Life is filled with a lot of blanks and we may ask why, but never get an answer. "

Now the interesting part of the quote for me is not the part about not understanding why things happen nor the part about never getting an answer. I am lingering over the phrase "Life is filled with a lot of blanks." I have never heard anyone say that particular phrase and in our multi-tasking, do-it-all and do-it-now society it almost sounds out of place.

The more I think about it, there is a level of comfort and freedom in accepting that certain points in my day, week, month, year and life are supposed to be blanks. Matter of fact, instead of me saying frequently, "I need a vacation," maybe I should be saying, "I need a blank," which may mean taking a few items off my to do list and doing absolutely nothing.

SDB

What is Wrong with These People?

2007-07-11T10:29:00.000-05:00

I have a long commute to and from work everyday. My commute per day is about 2 hours and 15/30 minutes roundtrip and most days it is not that bad. The best thing about my commute is that Miss B (25 months old) is with me since her home daycare is close to work and we get to spend that time together.

But some days, I seem to avoid getting in a near fatal accident not once, but twice per day by people on the highway. I never question the statistic I am more likely to die in a car accident than flying since I am on the highway everyday.

Yesterday afternoon was one of those days where I avoided at least two accidents. Halfway home, after avoiding near fatal accident number two, I started talking to myself outloud and said, "What is wrong with these people?" A second later Miss B obliged me with an answer that was delivered in an exasperated tone which mirrored mine, "I don't know."

Please buckle your seatbelt for landing. Enough said.

SDB

Preppy Bargain of the Week

2007-07-09T15:45:00.000-05:00

I went to the mall on Sunday afternoon with a goal to be in and out within an hour, which Miss B and I did accomplish. As I was racing through Sears to get to the main section of the mall, these leather sandals caught my eye. I am always on the lookout for a classic, preppy bargain and at $13.99 a pair, I was sold.

For me, buying shoes can be a pain since I wear a 10 1/2 or 11. They actually had all four colors in a size 11 (rare find) and since they were a perfect fit and did not make my feet look huge, I stocked up by buying all four.

SDB

Happy Monday

2007-07-09T13:32:00.000-05:00

Miss B (daughter), Mr. B (husband) and I went to a birthday party Saturday evening. We had a great time and I was reminded again how truly blessed I am to have a healthy child. I know many of you can relate to how easy it is at times to get caught up in the little things and lose sight of the big picture.

I called Mr. B this morning, who left for work before I got up, and said, "Happy Monday!" He asked what was so happy about a Monday and I told him we are blessed to have a beautiful, healthy child. He immediately agreed and said "Yes, you are right."

SDB

Time Out - I Am Going To Work

2007-07-03T10:55:00.000-05:00

As I was getting out of the bath tub Sunday night, I hear my 25 month old daughter at the door saying in a stern voice, "Time Out, Time Out, Time Out!" I opened the door to see what she was doing and she had her baby doll facing the corner.

Later that evening she was wearing my work high heels and holding her baby doll. She walked across the living room and put her baby doll down on the entertainment center. She proceeded to sashshay towards the front door and then turned around to tell her baby doll, "I am going to work."

I think it is too early for me to tell her she is turning into her mother.

SDB

First Post

2007-07-02T11:17:00.001-05:00

Well, I have officially entered blogland. I am excited to see where this journey takes me and hope to share some great finds along the way.

SDB